On the Comfort of Small Distances

Spaces that don’t need to close.

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There’s a certain relief in letting some distances remain.

Not every gap demands to be closed, not every space requires explanation. Sometimes the comfort comes from knowing that a little distance can be a form of respect rather than avoidance.

Some gaps feel healthy, even necessary.

The space between a question and its answer. The pause at the end of a conversation when no one rushes to fill the quiet. The stretch of time between when something matters urgently and when it becomes part of the background.

Closeness doesn’t always mean merging.

You can stand near someone—emotionally or physically—and still leave a bit of space around them. Enough room for their own thoughts, their own timing, their own way of being. That space isn’t a lack; it’s an allowance.

There’s respect in preserving a little distance.

A recognition that connection doesn’t have to be total to be real. That two people or ideas can stay distinct and still meet in the middle.

Not every distance is a problem to solve.

Some are meant to stay exactly as they are: small, untroubled, quietly intact.